Dear.....

For months before my i took that walk down the aisle(marriage) I wanted to write this blog.. I wanted to say goodbye to an old friend..to a partner..a comapanion..

I never really figured out how to do it..and even now i still don't know..but here goes..I wanted to say goodbye to bachelor life.. I wanted it to be special like the way Jay-Z said goodbye in Dear Summer.. you how he put the thoughts and metaphors together to make it seem like Summer was a real person when in reality he was talking about the rap game.. thats what was trying to do with this.. but for some reason it hasnt seemed just right to do until now..so I give you dear bachelor life..

Dear bacheor life,

I'm sure your gonna miss me...man we had some times..but you have times with every guy before he leaves you..i learned alot from you old friend..i learned very young that you were the fun and excitement and energy that leaves a man 40 and 50 yrs old in the club..dont take that the wrong way u have plenty to offer..just not for me..see although you and i were cool we could never stay together..i always wanted a family and kids and love and the whole happy ending..and you couldnt give me that..your just not designed to..you just cant manufacture those feelings and ideals..no doubt your the life of the party and i know you have stories to share with every guy you meet about the fast life and all that..I just didnt want that..it wasnt you it was me..just wouldnt have worked out..We were both there when we saw my wife for the first time..and i think then you even knew like i that what we had was coming to a close..So i guess what im saying is that you taught me alot about myself and my heartfelt thanks comes to you.. without you i couldnt have known exactly the type of women i didnt want..or precisely the one i did..so as i close i wanted to leave you with this:


I'm done for now, so 1 for now
Definitely forever, but we had fun together
But when I found my wife we had to come to an end
Please don't show anymore love to my friends
Dear Bachelor Life